“Tell him you disagree and he turns away. “A man with a conviction is a hard man to change,” Festinger, Henry Riecken, and Stanley Schacter wrote in When Prophecy Fails, their 1957 book about this study. The researchers watched with fascination as the believers kept on believing, despite all the evidence that they were wrong. Sure, the spacemen didn’t show up today, but they were sure to come tomorrow, and so on. Needless to say, no spacemen (and no flood) ever came, but Martin just kept revising her predictions. In a famous study, Festinger and his colleagues embedded themselves with a doomsday prophet named Dorothy Martin and her cult of followers who believed that spacemen called the Guardians were coming to collect them in flying saucers, to save them from a coming flood. The theory of cognitive dissonance-the extreme discomfort of simultaneously holding two thoughts that are in conflict-was developed by the social psychologist Leon Festinger in the 1950s. These days, he dedicates part of his practice to working with former cult members and family members of people in cults. Shaw eventually found his way out of Siddha Yoga and became a psychotherapist. Gurumayi, though unnamed, is presumed to be the featured guru in Elizabeth Gilbert’s 2006 bestseller Eat, Pray, Love.)īut that was then.
So it doesn’t matter that she’s lying.’” (For her part, Gurumayi has denied banishing her brother, and Siddha Yoga is still going strong. And when he decided it didn’t matter-“because she’s still the guru, and she’s still only doing everything for the best reasons. That was when Shaw realized he was being lied to. Shaw says he was already hearing “whispers” of sexual abuse when he joined in the 80s, but “I chose to decide that they couldn’t be true.” One day shortly after he flew to India, Shaw and the other staff members had gathered for a meeting, and Gurumayi had explained that her brother and popular co-leader was leaving the organization voluntarily. The article by Lis Harris detailed allegations of sexual abuse against Gurumayi’s predecessor, as well as accusations that Gurumayi forcibly ousted her own brother, Nityananda, from the organization. Shaw rose through the ranks, and spent a lot of time traveling for the organization, sometimes with Gurumayi, sometimes checking up on centers around the U.S.īut in 1994, Siddha Yoga became the subject of an exposé in The New Yorker. At one point, I felt that I had found my life’s calling.” So, in 1985, he saved up money and flew to India to join the staff of Gurumayi Chidvilasananda, the spiritual leader of the organization, which had tens of thousands of followers. But with Siddha Yoga, “my experiences were so good and meditation felt so beneficial I really walked into it more and more deeply.
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Listen to the audio version of this article: Feature stories, read aloud: download the Audm app for your iPhone.īack in 1980, Shaw had arrived at a Siddha Yoga meditation center in upstate New York during what he says was a “very vulnerable point in my life.” He’d had trouble with relationships, and at work, and none of the therapies he’d tried really seemed to help.
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